I have a question..
If you dreamt about sleeping with your ex or your girlfriends sister, would you tell her?
obvousily your under no obligation to tell her your dream because they are your dreams but would you?. If you had a nightmare or a funny dream... you would, so why is this any different
So something a lot of you dont know. My uni has a radio station and guess what!! i am a presenter( well part time anyways).. On the last show , i really had no script, so i decided to ask questions about relationships and previous experiences as it is something everybody can relate to... i really thought i could handle it.. so a few messages came in and it was smooth sailing but then i got this one...
ive been married 24yrs tomorrow and guess what i will be getting the same as i have for the last 23 nothing as normal, i buy him a card and a present every year but he forgets every one. well there wont be a 25th i will be off and prehaps he can get another house keeper and bed mate lol.
ps he thinks buying me a ring when we got married was the only one i wanted, never had an item of worth of him since lol
ps he thinks buying me a ring when we got married was the only one i wanted, never had an item of worth of him since lol
What did she expect my response to be?! was i meant to say please dont leave him or should i have said you go girl, leave his forgetfull ass...lol!..The producer was loving it, because for some strange reason more people were tunning in..maybe it was the traffic build up in town or something.. but then i started getting some strange messgages which i am not going to bother putting up
Then i got the second message that stopped me in my tracks..
Ok well I'm 21 the Fiance is 20 and Her little sis is 18... the thing is i have been going to and from work with the sister 'S' and been spending loads of time with her cos obviously we work near eachother do lunch and all the other stuff and my better half 'N' works in a different part of the city and so obviously i dont see her all that much and the other day i suddenly had the urge to kiss 'S' i mean thats not the worst bit though...
'S' works in an office and she always dresses provocatively, short pleated skirt and chrisp white shirt just to piss everyone off... she has an amazing figure and arse and tits to go with it, but i dont think i should be the one wanting to take her somewhere quiet hoist up her skirt and make her moan out with pleasure... i do that for 'N' and should only do that for 'N' its like i want to have both sisters and even if i did it with my fiance's sister i doubt she would keep it quiet for very long... Its like a good hornifying dream gone bad....
Any thoughts... They would be much appreciated :-)
'S' works in an office and she always dresses provocatively, short pleated skirt and chrisp white shirt just to piss everyone off... she has an amazing figure and arse and tits to go with it, but i dont think i should be the one wanting to take her somewhere quiet hoist up her skirt and make her moan out with pleasure... i do that for 'N' and should only do that for 'N' its like i want to have both sisters and even if i did it with my fiance's sister i doubt she would keep it quiet for very long... Its like a good hornifying dream gone bad....
Any thoughts... They would be much appreciated :-)
Does anyone actually have some answers to these because i found out, that i have to answer these questions sent to me..
It then brought me back to the questions men always ask? What do women want...i know for a fact if you ask a woman what she wants in man.. and she rights down all her specifications, she probably wouldnt find anyone that suits all of it.
Women have this whole idea, that guys are different. Most want someone that is good lokking with big boobs...Well that is 50/50..A guy is not like a babe...He can marry someone that pleases him, not necessarily his ideal woman. She might please him in the sense of maybe she is caring and what not , whilst not really fitting the criteria of his ideal woman...
So i threw my question, what do women want to the general public in the UK and i got the oo sooo typical response :- He must be well fit!!, and good looking(As if those 2 are not the same thing) and he must be caring....
So i am going to throw this question out there...
Naijababes what do you want in a man?
dont forget the two other questions and the radio comments
23 comments:
Am i first!!!! yeaaaaa!!!
Dang... he's fantasizin bout his sister??
Hmm..
wat do i want in a guy...i'd like a rily gud lukin guy but they dont alwayz come in that package.
So... i'd want him to be taller than me, funny, speak rily good enlgish, love music, pay attention to me, not be overllyyy jealous, understandin, slow to anger, have a forgivin heart most of the time, have a forgetful mind for the wrong doings, accept me as i am and not try to change me, be passionate, um.. good in bed!.. wat else...i fink datz the basic requirements.. too much to ask?
Maybe.. but there shud be an almost perfect guy out there..!
Rily lovin dis post!
Oo.. i fink itz soo col dat ure a presenter!
I alwayz wanted to do it but i felt itz kinda stressful.. is it??
Let me go and add u to my blogroll!
That 21 year old guy is obviously soo not ready for marriage yet!!!
If he is having thoughts like that about his fiance's sister, not even a random babe then it is quite likely their marriage wont last.
Ay yah I feel sorry for the 1st woman..really dont know what I would say to someone in that situation.
hahah im so with mz. dee!!
that isnt reely too much to ask is it?? and ow! lets not forget faithfuleness (which almost ALL men find hard)!!! :)
i want a man who is mute..., so i dont have to hear all the bullshit that comes out of his mouth
but in all honesty,there are a million and one things i would want in a dude. Since i know no such guy exist or will ever, I'll start by wanting someone who is willing to make the necessary sacrifice for my pleasing.
To the woman- I say Kudos to her! Taking 24 years of somebody's crap is hardcore!
To the guy- I think he still needs to live out the rest of the youth in him. He isnt ready for the responsibility and monotony of marriage.
What I want in a guy. Honestly I make up some honey coated criteria when I'm asked this. But the honest truth is even if you have a loong list, you will never find anyone who fits these criteria. The best person you could ever ask for is one who, without trouble you can mould into the man that you want. I think the key word here is flexibility.
If I say I want someone that makes me laugh, I dont want someone who will not know WHEN some things are funny or when they begin to border on annoying!
Also, I cant say I want a drop dead gorgeous guy, who'll turn out to be more vain than normal.
These things vary and the key is in being able to complement what the other lacks, then you probably wont notice what he is and what he isnt.
Naijababe, you took the words right out of my mouth! Thats why I didn't even say anything about what I would want in a man.
ISNT IT FUNNY HOW PEOPLE ASK QUESTIONS THEY KNU THE ANSWER TO!!!!!!!!!!!!! I MEAN SURELY THE 21 YR OLD GUY KNOWS WOT THE DEAL IS....i wont even acknowledge such an IDIOTIC QUESTION WITH AN ANWER.....21 yr old 'man'(more like boy).."BE GONE!!!!" *STICKS NOSE INTO THE AIR*
AND AS MY NAIJA BABE SED.....KUDOS TO THE WOMAN...really putting up with such bullshit...for 24 years...I GUESS love TRUELY IS blind!!! *hiss*
i want a 'MAN' in every sense of the word......a BEAUTIFUL ONE at that...now what beauty intails is open to interpretation....ALL I KNOW IS....WHEN I FIND THAT MAN THAT CAN HOLD a good woman down.....HE WILL STAY DOWN! xoxo
AND NO IF I WAS DREAMING ABOUT SLEEPING WITH MY GIRLFIEND'S SISTER I WUDNT TELL HER....i will go straight to MFM for DELIVERANCE!
What do I want in a man? I could fill pages with that one...but for starters:
I want...
1. A man that listens to me. Who doesn't just hear me-but listens to me...
2. A man who respects me.
3. A man who is well versed, well-read, well rounded.Who appreciates the arts, travel, etc...
4. I want a man who is passionate...not cliche kingd of passionate..but ravagely passionate. Who can kiss me and make me forget my mama's name..LOL
Ok this can go on forever-I have pages in my journal..lol
Caller 1- Has she ever voiced her opinions to her husband, some men are thick and need to be TOLD what we want, but if hse feels she's been receiving the short end of the stick, then goodluck to her
Caller 2- He doesn't have to get married now, either that,or stop taking her to work and going out on lunch with her, distance helps
That's a hard question to ask, someone can write 3 page essay on that.....I want someone who sees Zena and accepts Zena for who she is,unconditionally...Someone who is patient, mature, someone who is intuitive, caring,kind compassionate(the list goes on and on and on)
There is no perfect man, neither is there a perfect girl.....you work on it, you strive towards that perfection
Loved the post
Interesting comments! Ha! Ha!!...All the best with your desires...
Koko: did you say beautiful? what about mr aura? ha!ha!!
i want hot sex!!lol. i kid i kid..
i want romance, character and passion...simple..so tinuinu...will you be mine???..:) lol
unwritten...stop playing with me emotions like this...you knw i just got over you, stop it nowwww...lol!
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hmm..tintin..free me o!! lol..all this speculation stuvs..bsides did i hear about u? maybe..question is did u hear about me?
ENIGMA!!!!!!!!! WOT R U DOING HERE MOCKING ME OOOOO!!!!!!!!!!! SEE THIS MAN SHA!!!!!!!!!!1LOL.....i did say.....WOT THAT BEAUTY ENTAILS IS OPEN TO INTERPRETATION....so like Mr.Aura..i could love the beauty of his mind......I BET U DINT THINK BOUT THAT NOW DID YA!!!!!!!!!!!HA!
hmm, that guy is lookin for trouble ko? he sould keep his fantasies far from reality and not try anyfink foolish oh, the "N" chick is a fiance, she has graduated from girlfriend :P...the woman of 24 years..somtin is owrrying her jare..24 years and she hasnt hinted the guy?? and shes complainin that he doesnt "remember" its like thats what she wants nw..:P
and what i like in a guy..hmm, all the cliched stuff that mz.Dee said oh..he gats to be taller than me, adequately good lookin,wel built, intelligent, thoughtful,understanding, he gats to have humour, cuz me i need laughter up in my life!gats to be er...well read and cultured mehnm not someone who looks lost if i say Mozart.and he sould kow how to tap that oh! lay pipe :P teehee the ist gets more specific :D but this one is ideally speakin, cuz ive heard one too many times that what im lookin for, i wont find.*sighs*..im determined to find jare!
ARE U MAD????
That is exactly what i want to ask you after reading the first sentence of this post. I don't even have to read the rest of your post. If you tell your mate about those kinds of dreams, make sure you have written your last will and testament. finish. lol!
Hey, BTW, I found some other blogger that says he is trying to save you men folk. I told him to look for you and you guys are probably blog brother. Did he find you?
NIGERIAN CURIOSITY
IT WAS SO MUCH EASIER WHEN I ONLY HAD ONE...
i think..
Noone knows what they want..not really..because we often meet people that fit no sort of criteria and we end up with them..im not really into guys that are too good looking..cos ill be sharing him too much with the rest of the woman race..infact i have to go and think about this..what do i want in a guy?
Firstly, tininu - i love ur blogs!!!! Sha dont let ur head swell oh lol
@ timmy lmao bout wanting a man who's mute - i guess guys also say they want the same for girls lol
What i want in am man - loads menh - but the essentials...
He needs to be cute but not too cute oh cus i dont want public property lol.. Good kisser and defo compatible in bed ;-)
He needs to be understanding and want to grow with me. Be supportive and loving..
the list is endless, but he ultimately needs to have fear of God!!!
hi,i'm new on blogsville,i dont know what i want in a guy,i dont even think i look for a particular thing but i know i dont want a guy who cheats on me,i want someone who loves me more than anything in the world - i hope thats possible though - thats why i think i'll find this in a white guy not a black boy.
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