So far blogging has been fun, i have loved your support & response. A few peps have put questions across to me which may have risen from previous post or are just floating around in their head, well i am going to try and answer them and give more of an insight into who i am and how i think...
Q: Did you actually have stuff with people's mothers and how dear you?
A: Obviously i dont, those two were exceptions( The second one, i actually did not do anything with her). I just sent her presents and flowers anonymously , in absence of her husband (who was always out of town).When she found out it was me, she practically fell in love. I actually have a way to win over nija momsi's when dating their daughters.
Q:You have just posted a guide to cheating for guys, where is the female version?
A: The Girl chronicles was not intended to be a manual to cheating..it is more of a guidline( Okay i am joking)..It is just a reflection of the way i perceive relationships, ever since my encounter with Mrs Right and being caught off guard! A female version hasnt come to mind yet, but i do have a way to say no to guys and mean NO!
General statement: I just want to reconfirm i am not a serial dater, i dont go out with girls if i cant see us lasting for at least a minimum of a year, i am actually quite a decent guy.. it is just that i dont have a conscience anymore, and everything is now black and white.
In response to a lot of the comments affirming how my theories will never work on them and how their boyfriends are faithful.
A: To those of you with the faithful boyfriends, congratualtions....but just because you cannot see the wind doesn't mean it is not there( nija proverb)..Dont get me wrong, guys can be loyal..i mean i know guys who have been loyal to Arsenal and Man u for over 8 years and have never defaulted once, but we are all human and girls of now adays are different.
A: To those you say my theories will never work on them - please note in my post "girl chronicles" i put a difficulty level of easy..That is due to the fact,that my example was the most basic form of lying, i dont expect them to call every girl "baby", infront of the girlfriends 24/7, whilst on the phone. You need to be a bit more creative. You need to know your girlfriend. Your personality and Approach are very important as a guy, when handling these issues.
General Comment: My personality is very laid back and almost carefree, this involves everything but my communication and approach to Miss Irreplaceable, is impeccable. My approach is what saves my ass 24/7.
Q: Exactly how did you justify cheating?
A: As i said it is my approach.. this is really had to explain, and i cannot think of an example that is not long winded...let us just say i am one of those guys that can sell raid to a bug, or sand to thirsty guy in the desert.
Q: Who is this Mrs Right? and what exactly did she do?
A: Obviously i cannot divulge who she is, but in short she was IT. As a guy when your mum says "you should bring home a girl that would make her proud, that would be like a daughter to her, someone that makes you happy".. she is talking bout Mrs Right..I would have done anything for her, i wouldnt think about myself without thinking of her first..as short as it was, i was very happy and i hope i can be that happy again, because she has raised the standard for babes in my life..I think she cooked something in my stew because i have never really totally gotten over her...But she didnt do anything bad, that another girl hasnt done to a guy before.
Q: Describe yourself!
A: I am that quiet boy your mum warned you about, please girls avoid those kind of boys at all cost.. Because i am a deep well calculated type of guy and very maticulate when it comes to girl issues..i am the kind of guy that can be thinking about a girl (who is just a friend), text her at 3 am..pretending i was thinking about her, next week send her flowers and a present and then just show up at her door unexpectedly, in response she starts developing feelings ...why do i do this?...because i can. I have no feeling for her what so ever, i am not a bad person, it is just that after what i have been through, i know how to fake feelings i dont have. I also act a fool a lot..last week a girl and i were singing loudly (out of tone) and then we started grinding on each other( because sexual seduction was on the radio) in hmv.
Q: What do i think about cheating?
A: That is a diffrent post on it's own...
Hopefully this week i will post another episode of girl chronicles, i already have reporting live from bed, it is just that i have to hold it back due to some certain factors( such as Mrs Right has started reading my blog..i think. Also i'm back to school and have got deadlines coming up)
If you have any questions you want to ask me, feel free...Tin-Tin
19 comments:
Well Nice to meet you then Tininu...lol. I have a friend that was once found "IT", got her heart shattered and now, she has no pity for guys. (it's funny, but not at the same time)... So i understand were you're coming from, but stay away from girls and we'll be cool, aiight...haha.
Laters G!!!
we have the same blogger name!!!
I know!!!! i was actually gonna leave a little message regarding that but you know what they say; great minds....think alike
Hmmmm interesting.I'm on the watch out for more stuff here.You are kinda weird.Thanks for stopping by.
I like you already...need to make time out to read the whole of your blog...so where's Mrs Right now?
So, have you deliberately caused a girl you had no feelings for to get feelings for you? And if so, how can you then say you are not a bad person?
As for Mrs. Right, I am curious to know why you guys fell apart, but understand that you are hesitant to discuss. Anyway, best of luck and be careful. I can't help but suggest that the 'stunts' you are performing for the sheer fun of it could pose a roadblock to finding another Mrs. Right or getting back with the original one. Will swing by at another time to read your update. BTW, your frankness, without condescension, is refreshing.
As for both questions- Mrs right is with her boyfriend..*sigh!!** but he is cool..so i am happy i guess( well that is what i tell myself).honestly i cant get back with Mrs right for a lot of reasons, some not even known to myself...i mean we are cool, i can pick up the phone call her, just because i want to hear her voice.( she knows that i am not trying to hit on her). there is no awkwardness.
But i have this golden rule since like day 1, if we break up, it means i had tried my very best and what ever the reason we broke up over, we cant get past it..
@solomonsydelle- ur probably right about the stunts but i think i have to keep doing them in order to fish out who is real and what not!
Lol...allow me :P
As for my revision its going slowlyy lol.This law degree that im doing is @ the moment boring me out of my mind mehn.Thx 4 asking sha.Hope uve been good!
hmmm. some serious stuff. will have to read ur previous posts to clarification. luvin ur blog already.
Bad goizzzz!!! I'm feeling ur steez mehn. Too bad!
mmmmm...interesting yet quite disturbing...lol
good luck on ur upcoming papers and stuff!!
havent read all your blog entries but wat i've read thus far is tantalizing
So u r a randy young man!!!
ok i'm back..name sake!!! gowwsshhh ur a bad bad man!!! baaaaaaaaaaadddddddddddddddd
bbbaaaaaaaaaaaaadddddddddddd
When are you gonna update na?
I ahve found the IT, and I aint letting go!!!
muahahahahhaaaa
me too, n i'm still holding tight to IT
*how u?
YOU!! dancing to sensual seduction in hmv!! you are a joker!!are you sure ur 9ja?? you truly are laid back and those your runs of calling at 3am, sending flowers and all that...I gbadun your runzz...Kai, i really underestimaed game o!! ima binu o!!! kai... i need to up my game on a real though
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