Obviously you are back here so you want to know!...Hmmmm but what exactly is the point if i tell you guys everything and at the end of the day all i get is "You are a glorified ho". As in really.
CLOSURE
Bastard/ Tin-tin dictonary definition:
Clo.sure|'klø zh er|
Protective Noun
1.The act of closing or enclsoing something in order to protect it, in this case a relationship.
2.A resolution to protect something dear from external factors such as Amebo's or fake friends
Note- Closure does not apply to Qc girls , because those girls are everywhere and it is like they have this virus that does not allow them to keep their mouth shut or mind their own business...infact i think i only have 2 friends from Qc, that is how bad it is..infact i am sure the one that called me a ho sef is a Qc girl..Now bear in mind this is my own blog, i can write what i like and if you are a Qc babe and dont like what i am saying, close your web browser and go and find a job....Moving on
In relationships there always seems to be the whole he-said, she-said thing that occurs and from experience it never helps. From the onset it is essential that there is some sort of closure..
This example is mainly for the guys: If you have just started a relationship with a girl and in the case of this example you slept with her within the same month or week. There is no need to rush and tell your guys, if they dont ask you then there is no need to tell. If they do then hold them off for like a month before you tell them, let things between you and the girl settle down. Because all it takes is for one of your guys to remix the story to" Can u imagine the babe was giving him head" and her friend hears and tells her..She will then come to you and round 1 begins." i cant believe you told your friends, i gave you head", you know how the rest goes.
Guys please this one is very important. If anything in the long run, this will save you..trust me on this one( speaking from experience)
This one is for both guys and girls:- Be able to differeciate between your friends and be able to categorise them. You need to know the one that remixes the stories, the one that mistakenly tells their own friend harmlessly and the one that broadcast the stories to your enemies and more importantly do the same thing for your babe/ guys friends. Categorising them can be very hard, infact the only way i was able to do it was by spreading false gist, i spread 3 different versions, i knew who i had told what and which one spread the most. I am not saying you have to go that extreme but when you want to weed out your friends and discard those that are not helping you in anyway then, often you have to do things that are deep, just like i have done.
Thirdly ensure that your relationship is not a triangle or a square, in english it isnt one of those my friend and i are dating my boyfriend and his friend(The sqaure)or
As a guy your going out with the babe but there is always her friend and it seems like your going out with 2 people but your not(The triangle). Avoid this at all costs, as in this is a NO GO!!! Under no circumstances, even in marriages, these kind of friendships end up being detrimental.
In the case of the square, when the 2nd couple are fighting, more or less you guys are fighting because you will be dragged into it by your babe.
In the case of the triangle, when you want to go somewhere like take your girlfriend on a spontaneous gateaway and she is saying no because her friend will be bored and something similar and this happens on more than one occasion, please start drafting new a plan to get a new girlfriend.
Once the things above have been done properly, when you guys actually argue for whatever reason, the damage will be limited and controlled which will give you guys the time and space to work out your problems and heal, if your still going to be together. But the time you start involving your friends, you will slowly be manipulated and will not want to look weak infront of your friends and migth necessarily do what is best for you.
One last thing if your arguing, {this should be common sense after everything i have said.} Do not have a tantrum outside in public, this goes out to the babe. Because if you do( because you want to disgrace guy in public) God help you if this guy has something on you that you dont know about and besides that your madness will just make you look like a madwoman in public...no joke!!! you might be happy with yourself oo but 6 months down the line when you don thave a boyfriend and your looking in the mirror and wondering why. Remember the day you thought you were cool, acting like a mad woman in public and how the gist spread....
Lastly, If your boyfriend is anything like me{ which i know a lot of you will pray against}, then he will turn that attack in public against you there and then, disgrace you and then break up with you......life is a b**ch mehn!!!.
By the way i only do what is done onto me.....
Your only lover boy,
Tin-tin.
p.s Annon{es} : please leave me ooo, i begged you in the last post..please oooo!!!
thank you
kiss kiss
*Update*
I forgot to add this and this was actually the main point ooo
If you guys have closure in your relationship and eventually break up on a bad note, becuase of the closure you guys had and lack of gist spreading, you guys will be able to sort out whatever resentment that is present and be close again, and might even lead back to a relationship....
Closure does not only apply to relationships but normal friendships or even friends with benefits
And that seems to be why i have a lot of friends that are girls...( there is no direct correlation with the comment about friends with benefits and the comment on the amount of friends that i have..thank you for your understanding.....Tin-tin boy)
25 comments:
yeeyyy...i am first...
i have to go offline,i'll read tomoro...(funny hey??)
See your head..
like mango
see ur head!!! like your no one lover boy!!!
HMMMM.....INTERESTING CONCEPT....its all about closure...YEP THATS RIGHT.....ONLY 2 PEOPLE IN THE WORLD HEAR MY JUICY JUICIES WHILE IT IS STILL HOT.....MY 2 BESTFRIENDS.....
and in the contract we signed 5 years ago....*MY MAN..MY BIZZZNESS BIATCH*.......its one of the reasons till this day..we remain...THE FAB TRIO!!!!!!!!
P.S: *OH YOU ARE toooo modest MR TINTIN!
P.P.S:XOXO
boo mi!!..u just keep knockin me off my feet with these sturvs...lol
ok first off..ur right bout qc girls..they are like cockroaches..everywhere..besides we all know ISL does it better..:)
and for me sha..closure is hard especially when u really like the person..but at the end of the day there is no point crying over spilt milk...so we gasta move on!
Very good points.
But nevertheless I reckon you are a confused guy.lol
You never stop giving me jokes. I love this post though, you took the words right out of my mouth. I thought i was the only one that thinks qc girls have a perculiar behaviour or that any relationship without 'closure' is headed for splitsville.
ROFLMAO @ ur pre-amble about closing the web browser and getting a job if you don't like what u r reading.Every single thing you said in the post is true.
May God save you from these ur anonymous fans o.
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This sounds like rambling to me. Where did closure come in? I'm slow like that...thank you.
PS...somebody doesnt play games...I can see that
naijababe - Oh no you didnt, i know you didnt just ask me that question!!!
r u sure there is no connection between the comment friend's with benefit and ur amount of female friends?? eh?? lol
U have spoken well.
I personally don't mix boyfriends with friendship. My mans gist/what happened btw us is a no go area. Only GOD needs 2 know what we did last 9t.
Qc girls must have really vexed u oh. My closest friend went 2 Qc.
Ma Mehn! take it easy on QC babes please. Give them a break please.
Anyway, I'm really with you on that square and triangular thing. Serious long thing. A relationship must be for only two people, no more no less.
Nice one.
Please check your mail.
Rambling once again.
I did see the closure but the only thing I could make sense of was the triangle and square thing....and your obvious attempt at slipping a not so kind word about Qc babes into the whole thing...I'm not one by the way.
But erm yeah...RAMBLING!
lol @ remembering the main post after you finished writing....
Hace...don't mention Qc babes o cos its not only us that have drama.its just that we are a very popular people so our drama is more pronounced...theres ISL girls,vivian fowler, a-hall and the likes...
Have u had bad experiences with Qc girls o what???
I agree with you on the square,triangle faisco...its so not worth the hassle.
Fowler babes, QC babes..all babes are drama jare.
LOL@ finally getting to the main point of the post at the conclusion
lol @ he QC girls comments. I happen to be hearing those a lot these days.
Interesting concepts, I'll test them out in the near future. lol.
I'm kinda with naijababe on this one. I'm now confused about what you called closure.
Sha, the qc thing makes me think that one of dem do you strong ting...pele...na so e be.
And for the square and triangle relationships...na small pikin dey do dat one of to include friend wit im relationship waka-ings.
QC girls are QC girls...They all feel...as do KC boys- they are destined to be together...its written in the stars.
Tin tin...Good on ya! I agree with what you have said here (first time for everything right?)
Anyho, keep up the good work...
Seen!..Tininu allow the Qc babes mehn. Good secrets though..lol. x
U r really something LOL!!!
I feel like coming to you for advice like
Dear Uncle Tininu,...
or something
especially with the kind of relationship I have.
Oh, I forgot. You already gave me ur 2 kobo. Wicked you!!!
And wats d biff wit QC girls
ha ha ha, good for them.
Tanks Tin-Tin for stopping by and making my day.
Looking forward to seeing u more often and I'll definitely be stalking THIS blog.
HAHA! you are jokes mate! Lol@ the qc girls thing.
Arent all girls stress and all whatyou said..
Boy! hmm.. leme go read your other posts before i continue...*
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